If you decided to buy some lingerie for your lady – congratulations, it is a great gift. Women are usually self conscious of their bodies in one or another way and such an intimate surprise shows them they have nothing to worry about: every inch of them is appreciated. So here are some useful advices how to buy lingerie and how to choose a perfect item for your loved one.
Entering a lingerie shop and buying the first thing you like is not a very good idea. Also, it is almost impossible. If you have never been to this kind of shop, you will be shocked by a variety of colors, sizes and shapes. In other words, you will be lost. So prepare yourself. While your sweetheart is having a shower or a glass of wine with her friend, sneak into her closet and look at her lingerie collection. Here you will find the most important information – her size. Make sure you check the size of at least three lingerie items and if they are all the same size, write it somewhere.
Now it is time to think about the color. It is easy if you remember that she loves blue or pink, but if you do not know her favorite color or forgot it, do not panic. Just closely investigate her lingerie or look around the closet and you will definitely see some patterns: maybe she likes bright colors or maybe she only dresses in black. Use this information.
Now you know her size and her favorite color. But do you know her? Before buying your lady lingerie, you should consider her personality and manners in bed. If she is calm and shy, stick to simple looking and natural feeling lingerie. If she is an adventurous type, you should look for vivid colors and more original models. Buy something extreme only if you are 100 percent sure that she would be ok with it.
Saleswoman will be glad to help you finding a perfect gift, but you should be prepared to give her more information than “Ehm… She looks same as you”. And if you do not trust strange people with such an intimate decision, ask a female friend for a help. It can be your friend or hers – does not matter. Women developed good taste and instincts for lingerie through the years. Trust them.
Men enjoy looking at beautiful women dressed in beautiful lingerie. Let’s face it – it is one of the reasons why men buy it. However, remember that this is a present for her. So put aside your fantasies and rather think about your sweetheart’s likes and comfort. This kind of selflessness will be rewarded.
If none of the above advices on how to buy lingerie were helpful and buying still seems very frustrating, there is a simple solution. Just buy her a gift card. In such case, you will be relieved to avoid unpleasant experience in a lingerie shop and she will be pleased to know you not only appreciate her body but also her style.